The object is always in contact with you.
Is there a love? Or is it too strong?
In fact, it is not ...
Have you heard of "skin hunger"?
As the name suggestion
It is a special desire for the skin.
Touch and hug by others
This is actually a psychological disease
This type of human skin is sensitive to ordinary people
When the skin is touched
Can get physiology, psychological strong satisfaction
But over-relying on this satisfaction
It also brings a negative impact
Once you are eager to meet
Insomnia, anxiety, and mood will follow
Severe or even affect normal life
Girl with skin hunger, hug
Will be afraid that I am too sticky, not independent
Boys with skin hunger, hug
Easy to be misunderstood
Nothing patient is more miserable
Can't force others
Can only take another way
So many "about the survivifier" invitation
Why do you have skin hunger?
I am eager to be touched is a human energy.
It is the same as hungry.
Let's first look at a famous "central" experiment.
Researchers will isolate the little monkeys who have just born with the mother monkeys
And put two model mother monkeys in front of the little monkey
One is a simple wire mother who can provide milk.
Another is a furry cloth even monkey
See which "mother" will prefer it.
The little monkey doesn't want to think
Give a drink in front of the wire model
Can drink milk
As the researchers are expected
The little monkey is more willing to relieve
Nothing can't give it a batch mother
Because of a soft and warm touch
Meet the small monkey touch demand
Our human beings are also the same
Skin as the largest feeling
Is the earliest development of the organs
We are from infancy
Can pass hugs and touch
Feel the benefits of oxytocin secretion
It can help shy people overcome shame when socializing
Can also make ordinary people soothing pressure, cheerful, and belonging
Can be due to some reasons
More and more people can't enjoy this feeling.
1 childhood emotional lack of childhood
Long grows in a safe environment
Will let them understand the people
Missing trust in people
I am eager to be loved, but I am afraid of being loved.
2 The social intersection does not have to face opposite, payment does not have to hand
That's right, how many people do you have?
I have never physical contact with others one day.
Hand with temperature turns into cold ice mobile phone
Skin hunger is in a young man who works alone
Become more common
In fact, you already know the answer.
Most people think
Skin phone phone case
Or a plush phone case
More than the general transparent plastic shell
And this feeling "good" idea is from what?
How to relieve skin hunger
Don't think about the phone shell.
Let's take a look at how to get out of this difficult
First of all, everyone must face your needs.
Uncle has a whole article to tell everyone
Desire to be touched is human nature
So you don't have to feel ashamed for your needs.
If it is a shy single boys
Come, uncle gives you a hug
If you don't like nine uncles
You can also choose a pillow
When hugging pillow, the brain will also generate tactile stimulation.
It is very safe
Uncle also recommends everyone to raise a pet companion
We are touching cats and dogs
Also secrete oxytocin
Pressure hormones, blood pressure, heart rate will fall
Muscles become relaxed
The mood is also better
When you put down your phone out of your door
You will find
There are still many people who have the same troubles like you.
A company friendship
A funny match
Maybe it will become a turning point for changing the status quo.
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